So it’s been a while. I’ve been dealing with Endometriosis and it’s been the worst battle I’ve endured so far. For a long time I myself nor the doctors knew what was wrong with me but now I’m so thankful to God that I was finally diagnosed and the problem was dealt with accordingly. Now it’s all about moving forward to gain a healthy body, lifestyle and soul which brings me to what I want to talk about today.

I want talk about the over entitled expectancy that we humans have in regards to achieving things in life. A lot of the time, I hear people claim that they’re going to get something or achieve something but they don’t create a life to accommodate said achievement. Let me land my argument before you question it. I find that a lot of people say they’re going to receive something in life without editing their life to accommodate exactly what they want. A lot of people want something new or something good to happen but they don’t change their day-to-day routine to welcome such change.

A lot of the time, we forget that in order for something to happen, sometimes a sacrifice comes with it. Sometimes we assume that with somethings, be it a new career or that promotion you’ve been waiting for or even that contract will just come because we believe that it will deserve it. We don’t dare analyse our lives to regard the facts of whether we even have room for the positive blessings that we want in our lives. Not only that, we as humans fail to understand that we actively have to speak it into existence and not only that, we need to edit our lives in a way to accommodate said blessings even if they haven’t arrived yet . We need to act somewhat in a way that we have already received that blessing we believe we deserve and ultimately we’re just waiting for it to arrive and make itself feel at home. Feeling deserving of something is not enough. You need to mentally and physically prepare yourself for your blessing to happen and not only that you need to know how you will deal with it when it does happen otherwise said blessing will turn into a curse if you’re not careful.

You need to take the necessary steps to act as though what you want is already there and it’s just a matter of time before it comes knocking at your door. Sometimes we forget that one of the main reasons why good things happen to people that may not seem like they deserve it is all due to the fact that they actively work towards it and are so determined to obtain it that they act like they already have it. I believe that is the key to gaining all the success that you want in your life. There are so many things I want to achieve in this life that seem somewhat unrealistic but I cannot be bound by the restrictions of my mind. Just because I can’t always perceive it in my life right now doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t actively work towards it or act like I don’t already have it.

From now on I’m going to create a mindset that is simply orientated around everything Iโ€™ve stated above. There is no doubt in my mind that there will always be someone who will be better at doing the things that I do. Kudos to them, but itโ€™s all about my own journey of success and living my life in such a way that I start to welcome the things that I want to achieve months or even years prior to achieving them. I talk alot about how we live in a very instant and fast society where ideas and dreams are short lived and sometimes lay dormant because people cannot be bothered to work hard or even be patient whilst waiting for the things that they swear up and down they wanted in life. So much so that people waste talent and settle for things that produce immediate gratification that too end up being short lived. Enough of that. In life, things takes time and all good things are not just worth waiting for, but they are worth actively working hard towards achieving.

Dress – Style Stalker

Boots – Christian Louboutin Big Lips

Choker – ASOS

  • That dress is gorgeous on you! And I feel you with your post, I’m constantly hearing people complaining about something they don’t like in their life yet they have so much control of it

    Agnes x

    • melswardrobe

      Thank you so much. It’s such great material and compliments the body so well def have a look at it. I’m so glad you resonate we have so much control over our fate yet we refuseto do anything about it! Humans, aye! x

  • Goodness I totally agree with you! We live in an INSTA-world and so many people lack the discipline to work towards a goal. Thanks for sharing about your personal life. I’m glad to hear that you found the diagnosis and it has been taken care off. Love your dress, very sexy!


    • melswardrobe

      Yessss glad you get me! Thank you. I’m en route to a speedy recovery! xx

  • nickabols85 .

    Great post! Love it…

    • melswardrobe

      Thank you love x

  • Yara Mel

    Really impressed with what you wrote ๐Ÿ™‚ amazingly said! And I’m glad you are out of the endometriosis drama, I believed u suffered a lot hun. hugs and kisses <3

    • melswardrobe

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it. Let me know if these are the kind of passages you’d like to see more of on MW. Thanks so much!! getting better everyday xxx

  • Mandy

    Hope you feeling much better now hon ๐Ÿ™‚
    It’s been awhile have really had time to read up on my fave bloggers so I missed a bit as back tracking now