So it’s been a while. I’ve been dealing with Endometriosis and it’s been the worst battle I’ve endured so far. For a long time I myself nor the doctors knew what was wrong with me but now I’m so thankful to God that I was finally diagnosed and the problem was dealt with accordingly. Now it’s all about moving forward to gain a healthy body, lifestyle and soul which brings me to what I want to talk about today.
I want talk about the over entitled expectancy that we humans have in regards to achieving things in life. A lot of the time, I hear people claim that they’re going to get something or achieve something but they don’t create a life to accommodate said achievement. Let me land my argument before you question it. I find that a lot of people say they’re going to receive something in life without editing their life to accommodate exactly what they want. A lot of people want something new or something good to happen but they don’t change their day-to-day routine to welcome such change.
A lot of the time, we forget that in order for something to happen, sometimes a sacrifice comes with it. Sometimes we assume that with somethings, be it a new career or that promotion you’ve been waiting for or even that contract will just come because we believe that it will deserve it. We don’t dare analyse our lives to regard the facts of whether we even have room for the positive blessings that we want in our lives. Not only that, we as humans fail to understand that we actively have to speak it into existence and not only that, we need to edit our lives in a way to accommodate said blessings even if they haven’t arrived yet . We need to act somewhat in a way that we have already received that blessing we believe we deserve and ultimately we’re just waiting for it to arrive and make itself feel at home. Feeling deserving of something is not enough. You need to mentally and physically prepare yourself for your blessing to happen and not only that you need to know how you will deal with it when it does happen otherwise said blessing will turn into a curse if you’re not careful.
You need to take the necessary steps to act as though what you want is already there and it’s just a matter of time before it comes knocking at your door. Sometimes we forget that one of the main reasons why good things happen to people that may not seem like they deserve it is all due to the fact that they actively work towards it and are so determined to obtain it that they act like they already have it. I believe that is the key to gaining all the success that you want in your life. There are so many things I want to achieve in this life that seem somewhat unrealistic but I cannot be bound by the restrictions of my mind. Just because I can’t always perceive it in my life right now doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t actively work towards it or act like I don’t already have it.